This One is Personal: Dancing With Myself, a Self-Love Erotica Anthology

I’ll be honest, dear reader. This one is personal.

My short story “Unconventional Methods” isn’t autobiographical, per se. However, I did delve a great deal into my own experience to write it. I set out to present a relationship between two people, each confronted with their own unique challenges, who have managed to form a deep, tangible connection without the benefits of touch.

Daniel is English, a Dominant, an amputee and a veteran. Sierra is an able-bodied American submissive coping with mental illness. She is a character, a proxy, but her struggle with social anxiety is a reality for many. It has been for me.

In my experience, social anxiety isn’t just a distaste for crowds or feeling awkward at parties. It’s a full-body response, the desperate need to retreat from the moment you step out the door. To quote my protagonist, it’s “Fight-or-flight at the ice cream shop, where the line is long and the pressure is on so you pick the first thing on the menu, though it’s not what you want, and then you hate yourself almost as much as you hate butter-pecan.”

So, why a story about self-loathing in a collection that’s meant to be about self-love?

Because in the face of crippling isolation, our heroine Sierra has found a way to connect. With the aid of a camera, an Internet connection and a little imagination, she and Daniel have fashioned a Dom/sub relationship that works for them. They support each other and accept each other. They love each other, and it is through this mutual acceptance, love, and support that Sierra is able to find the strength to believe in herself.

Self-love. Self-lust. Self-exploration. This anthology is a celebration of the private—and at times, not-so-private—dance we all know the moves to because we’ve been choreographing it since we realized we had bodies and the capacity for pleasure.

It brings me great pleasure to announce that Dancing With Myself, edited by Jillian Boyd for Sexy Little Pages, is now available in print and ebook.

Nine sizzling, sexy stories of self-love and self-discovery, edited by (and with a story from) Jillian Boyd, featuring Dena Hankins, T.C. Mill, Jordan Monroe, Leandra Vane, LN Bey, Jones, Hollis Queens and Rachel Woe.

In this sensually spellbinding collection, nine authors explore just a couple of the ways one can get themselves off – stories that don’t just hone in on the how, but explore the why, and the “oh… oh my.” Dancing with Myself delves into the heads and between the sheets of a long-distance submissive and her dominant, a cam girl reminiscing, an artist entranced with her unusual subjects and many more.

 

Read an excerpt from “Unconventional Methods” below:

His gaze drifts around the screen. “That chemise looks incredible on you, by the way.”

I glance down at the pearlescent silk top and matching shorts. Gone are the tattered tees and flannel pajamas I used to wear to bed. I now have an entire chest of drawers dedicated to undergarments, delicately folded and arranged by color and type. I’ve imagined Daniel running his fingers over the impossibly smooth materials before asking the salespeople to wrap each piece carefully for transport.

My nipples tighten into points, and I know he can see them. The longing in his gaze is unmistakable.

“Stand so I can look at you,” he says. I set the package on the desk and rise, the fabric caressing my skin as I move. “Turn for me.”

I pivot slowly, careful to keep my outfit within the webcam’s view. Every inch of me is an offering, every word from my mouth an homage. By the time I make it back around, he only has one hand on the desk in front of him.

Tension gathers between my thighs. He smooths his closely cropped beard.

“Now,” he says, “let me see those gorgeous nipples.”

My breath catches; my clit throbs. I want to rub myself but he hasn’t ordered me to, and although we’re an ocean apart and my hands are still my own, I will have to wait because that’s what I’ve agreed to do. I slide the chemise’s delicate straps off my shoulders, one by one, then draw the garment away from my breasts.

Daniel holds his tongue between his teeth. “Touch them.”

I lift and knead my breasts. My nipples tingle as I flick them gently with the tips of my forefingers, drawing a line of pleasure from my breasts to my core. I close my eyes and imagine that they’re Daniel’s fingers, Daniel’s palms. A soft moan floats from my mouth.

“Pinch them,” he says. I squeeze my nipples and flinch at the jolt of pain. He leans toward his laptop screen. “Again. Harder.”

I obey, biting my lips together to stop myself from making too much noise.

“God, that makes my cock ache,” he says, eyes half-lidded. I smile. My pain turns him on, and knowing he’s rock-hard and happy turns me on. He sits back in his chair, both hands on the desk in front of him. “You may open your present now.”

Frustration and curiosity vie for space inside me. Curiosity wins.

Hot and bothered? Grab yourself copy of Dancing With Myself today.

 

 

Longtime readers please note: an early version of this story was previously featured in a two-part blog post on this site. It has since been removed and thoroughly revised for publication.

Product Review: The Claws by Pocket Dungeon

While researching riding crops for a couple of scenes in the latter chapters of my first novel-length story, I stumbled upon a company called Pocket Dungeon.

Their featured product is a compact case filled with fun and versatile equipment for all of your BDSM on-the-go needs. While I can’t vouch for the quality of the Pocket Dungeon in its entirety, I couldn’t resist picking up a set of their Claws.

Furry handcuffs not included.
Furry handcuffs not included.

Regularly $19.95, they’re on sale right for a very reasonable $12.95 (which is what I paid for them).

They arrived from Hawaii as a set of five adjustable, stainless steel pieces. The instructions (as seen in the official video at the bottom of this post) are to place the claws below the “fleshy part” of the fingers to allow the wearer the versatility of utilizing the metallic claw portion and then following up with some tender, skin-on-skin strokes.

The claws aren’t particularly sharp, so if you’re looking for that concentrated, needle-like sensation, these aren’t going to do it for you. However, their rounded edges allow for a wide range of pressure options, from grabbing to heavy scratching to teasing, featherlike grazing.

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The claws stack well for easy storage and come with a so-called “snappy thing” that you can slip between them to keep the little finger-nuggets in place.

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Overall, I’m very happy with my purchase. They’re lightweight and adjust easily to suit each finger, though you really need to make sure they’re secure when performing any heavy scratching, as they can slip.

I had a lot of fun tap-tap-tapping them against various surfaces, such as tables, bedframes, handcuffs, and, of course, people. They would pair quite nicely with a complementary item, such as a fur glove or feather tickler.

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If I were to rate them on a scale from 1 to 5, I’d give them a solid 4. While they aren’t the most heavy-duty claws on the market, they’re a lot of fun and perfect for beginners. It’s the kind of toy you can surprise your partner with—and by that, I mean, “Surprise, look what I bought for us to try!” not “Surprise! Oops, I didn’t mean to stab your clitoris,”—without intimidating them.

See The Claws in action:


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